What a great article. I completely agree about using protection and being wise. Sex even with protection is dangerous. So, I weigh the options like I do with everything. Do the consequences out weigh the reality of my future? I don't mind children. I really don't mind raising a child on my own, if necessary. But I would prefer to have finances, and job capibilities at hand when doing so. Relationships, are important, but in no way should we be allowing toxicity to grow in our life. I always say love is what we need. Not toxicity.