Our brain is what tells us what is sexy and what is not. Its kind of the trigger for us to understand what we like and dislike. Too many men watch porn with the expectations that the things inside porn are what women want. What women truly want is someone who matches us emotionally, and gives us trust in return. We know we can trust them and we know that because of this trust we can fully and completely orgasm. I think this should about help define when it feels like real good sex. Sex will always feel better unprotected. ( I tell myself to always be careful.)